OET Speaking Role-Play Test 13
Nurse Nishe:
Good afternoon. I’m Nurse Nishe from the memory clinic. Thank you for coming in today. I understand your father has recently been diagnosed with early-stage dementia. This must be a very emotional time for you.
Daughter (Interlocutor):
Yes, it is. I’m overwhelmed and honestly don’t know how I’m going to take care of him at home.
Nurse Nishe:
I completely understand how difficult this news can be, and I want to reassure you that you're not alone in this. It's perfectly natural to feel overwhelmed, especially in the beginning. Let’s talk through your concerns and make a plan together.
Daughter:
I just don’t know what to expect. Will he get worse quickly?
Nurse Nishe:
That’s a very valid question. Dementia is a progressive condition, which means symptoms usually worsen gradually over time. In the early stages, your father might experience mild memory loss, confusion with time or place, or trouble finding the right words. But every person progresses at their own pace—some slowly, some more rapidly.
Daughter:
I’m really worried about his safety, especially when I’m not around. Can he be left alone?
Nurse Nishe:
That’s an important concern. At this stage, it’s best to start putting some safety measures in place at home—like removing tripping hazards, installing grab bars, and ensuring the stove or appliances are turned off when not in use. Whether he can be left alone depends on how aware and oriented he is. You may want to have someone with him for short periods and observe how he manages.
Daughter:
Okay. But what can I do day-to-day to support him?
Nurse Nishe:
That’s a great question. Here are some practical tips:
Try to establish a daily routine to help him feel secure.
Use simple and clear communication—short sentences, calm tone, and eye contact.
Encourage activities he enjoys, such as music, light gardening, or short walks.
Gently remind rather than correct—it reduces frustration for both of you.
Leave notes or visual cues, like labels on cupboards, which can help him stay oriented.
Daughter:
That’s helpful. But I still feel like it’s too much for me alone. Is there any support available?
Nurse Nishe:
Absolutely. There are several support services available:
Counselling and support groups for caregivers—many people find these very comforting.
Memory clinics offer regular reviews and advice.
Respite care services, where trained staff can take over for a few hours or even days, giving you a break.
And of course, home care nurses can assist with medication, hygiene, or general monitoring.
Would you like me to give you contact details for some of these services?
Daughter:
Yes, that would be great. I think I need help not just for my dad, but for myself too.
Nurse Nishe:
I’m really glad you said that. Looking after someone with dementia can be emotionally and physically exhausting. So it’s very important that you take care of your own well-being—get enough rest, eat well, and take time for yourself when you can. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
Daughter:
Thank you, Nurse Nishe. I was feeling so lost before this conversation.
Nurse Nishe:
You’re doing the best you can, and that matters so much. Your father is lucky to have you. You don't have to do this alone—we’re here to support both of you. Please feel free to ask any more questions or share anything you’re feeling.